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TO MY PALS
Tuesday 9 August 2011
ayotunde@yahoo.com: When the Pursuer is been Pursued
ayotunde@yahoo.com: When the Pursuer is been Pursued: "The picture below simply explains what happen to many Lovers out there... Men refuse to take responsibilities after they have purs..."
ayotunde@yahoo.com: When the Pursuer is been Pursued
ayotunde@yahoo.com: When the Pursuer is been Pursued: "The picture below simply explains what happen to many Lovers out there... Men refuse to take responsibilities after they have purs..."
ayotunde@yahoo.com: When the Pursuer is been Pursued
ayotunde@yahoo.com: When the Pursuer is been Pursued: "The picture below simply explains what happen to many Lovers out there... Men refuse to take responsibilities after they have purs..."
Monday 8 August 2011
When the Pursuer is been Pursued
The picture below simply explains what happen to many Lovers out there...
Men refuse to take responsibilities after they have pursued, over took and conquered.
Therefore, who is to be blamed?
A) The 1st Pursuer
B) The 2nd Pursuer
Men refuse to take responsibilities after they have pursued, over took and conquered.
Therefore, who is to be blamed?
A) The 1st Pursuer
B) The 2nd Pursuer
Topic: Is it possible to be in a serious relationship with a married man???
Women are well aware that most of the time they're a profound mystery to men. And for the most part, they like it that way. But the thought has occurred to just about every woman: Would it really be so bad if he knew about me? Wouldn't it help him understand me better? And more importantly, Wouldn't he annoy me less if he knew what I really wanted?
Just know this: the woman in your life? She's hiding more secrets than these, including a few you'd never imagine. Lucky you—you get to spend a lifetime learning them all.
1. Everything women buy for themselves—shoes, a skirt, even just stuff from the drugstore—really costs 20 percent more than they tell their spouse.
Just because it's a classic sitcom plot doesn't mean it isn't true. Sometimes my wife'll buy an outfit and charge half of it on our savings and pay for the other half in cash so I don't know what she's actually spending. Yeah, we know honesty is the best policy, hiding your spending habits is bad, blah blah blah. But sometimes women just don't want the hassle of arguing over the price of the fancy shampoo. Is that so wrong? Women don't think so.
2. Women actually think about sex—with you!—a lot.
Sometimes women think about it all day long. It's just that by the end of the day they're too damn tired to do anything about it. Now, if you could only catch her at lunchtime…
3. Women are just as nervous about commitment as you are.
True, many girls grow up dreaming of Prince Charming, the white wedding, and happily ever after. But women're human, just like you, and when it comes down to the reality of tying our life to another person's, they get scared, too. "The idea of getting married completely freaked me out at first," says a member, Bimbo on our facebook page from Nigeria. "I know this sounds like a guy cliché, but I saw it as giving up my independence and being tied down." The good news is, once we're hitched, we're generally pretty delighted about it. Says Bimbo, "Now that I am married, having a life commitment is so comforting and wonderful. I love knowing that we are a team and that we're going to be on the same team forever."
4. Women may be modern and independent, but they still want you to be "the man."
They do want you to be sensitive, caring 21st-century males, but even the most ass-kicking, take-no-prisoners woman still wants to feel taken care of by her man somehow. Whether that means you take charge in bed, know how to fix the car and kill spiders, or even just carry the big suitcase when we're on vacation—when you act all manly, even if you're 98 pounds soaking wet, it makes us feel more feminine, more safe.
"I love that my friends and family always comment on how my husband opens the door for me and does all kinds of other chivalrous things—especially when I was pregnant, when he was so protective of me and my belly," says Lola, 29, of Abuja, Nigeria. "At the end of the day, being in his strong arms is definitely a good feeling, no matter how independent I know I am."
5. A Women's ex-boyfriends were not completely terrible in bed.
You know how a woman is always telling you things like, "No one does it like you do"? Um, yeah. Well, she may have been stretching the truth just a teensy bit. But she'll never actually tell you that a past lover was a bedroom dynamo—she'is smarter than that. Just know that whatever toe-curling orgasms the other guy gave her, sex with you really is a million times better—because it's you, and you're the one she really want.
6. Women're scared that they'll turn into their mothers.
Women love their mothers, really. They admire them, They're grateful to them, They think they're the most amazing women on the planet. Women just don't want to be them. That's why one of the worst insults you can hurl at a woman is, "You're acting just like your mother."
But here's one that's even worse: "You're acting just like my mother." It sends a horrible oedipal shiver down her spines—did he marry me because I'm like his mom? Will he start expecting me to cut the crusts off his PB&J? So please, if you value your sex life, never ever compare your wife to your mother. Out loud, anyway.
7. Women want you to be jealous—but just a little bit.
She want you to notice—and care!—when the waiter flirts with her, or when other guys check her out on the street. It makes her feel that she matters to you. But please don't get all Neanderthal and possessive on her. "I'm very loyal, and if my guy can't understand that I would never do anything with anyone else, then that just makes me mad," says Kara from South Africa. So, to recap: Raising your eyebrows when she introduce you to her cute coworker—good. Punching him out—very, very bad.
8. Yes, she fantasize about hot celebrity guys, but that doesn't mean she want you to be them.
Ramsey Nouah is fsexy and all, but can you imagine having to put up with others sharing him with you.
9. She tell her girlfriends more than she admit to you (but less than you fear).
Yes, she tell them about the latest marital spat, complain about her mothers-in-law, and sigh over the hobby that sucks up all your free time. But she doesn't tell them how big your you-know-what is or that you cried in our arms when your dad died. Some things are just too important and intimate to share. "I definitely don't tell my girlfriends details like what my husband said when he proposed, the feeling I have every time I see him look at our daughter, and the little wonderful things he does for me every day," says cheryl. "Those are just for me."
10. She really do notice and appreciate all the chores you do.
Why don't she say so often enough? Because she can't get over all the things you don't do. As for me, for example, I'ms incredibly diligent about keeping a 6-by-10-foot carpeted patch of our apartment vacuumed and cat hair–free, and my wife love that. But it kills she that it never occurs to me to dust the furniture sitting on top of that piece of carpet, or to sweep the hardwood floor adjoining it. Not until she told me four years ago after our children became adults did I know. What a secret!
Blame a woman's lack of positive feedback on that stubborn female belief that there is Only One Right Way to do any given household task—our way. It's probably the real reason why men don't shoulder a greater share of housekeeping duties; women complain about how you did it wrong, so you never want to do it again. (Sounds familiar, right?) Let's make a deal: You promise to dust the lampshade (or wipe down the kitchen counter after you wash the dishes, or take out the garbage and then put a new liner in the can) once in a while, and we promise to sing your praises. Agreed
Just know this: the woman in your life? She's hiding more secrets than these, including a few you'd never imagine. Lucky you—you get to spend a lifetime learning them all.
1. Everything women buy for themselves—shoes, a skirt, even just stuff from the drugstore—really costs 20 percent more than they tell their spouse.
Just because it's a classic sitcom plot doesn't mean it isn't true. Sometimes my wife'll buy an outfit and charge half of it on our savings and pay for the other half in cash so I don't know what she's actually spending. Yeah, we know honesty is the best policy, hiding your spending habits is bad, blah blah blah. But sometimes women just don't want the hassle of arguing over the price of the fancy shampoo. Is that so wrong? Women don't think so.
2. Women actually think about sex—with you!—a lot.
Sometimes women think about it all day long. It's just that by the end of the day they're too damn tired to do anything about it. Now, if you could only catch her at lunchtime…
3. Women are just as nervous about commitment as you are.
True, many girls grow up dreaming of Prince Charming, the white wedding, and happily ever after. But women're human, just like you, and when it comes down to the reality of tying our life to another person's, they get scared, too. "The idea of getting married completely freaked me out at first," says a member, Bimbo on our facebook page from Nigeria. "I know this sounds like a guy cliché, but I saw it as giving up my independence and being tied down." The good news is, once we're hitched, we're generally pretty delighted about it. Says Bimbo, "Now that I am married, having a life commitment is so comforting and wonderful. I love knowing that we are a team and that we're going to be on the same team forever."
4. Women may be modern and independent, but they still want you to be "the man."
They do want you to be sensitive, caring 21st-century males, but even the most ass-kicking, take-no-prisoners woman still wants to feel taken care of by her man somehow. Whether that means you take charge in bed, know how to fix the car and kill spiders, or even just carry the big suitcase when we're on vacation—when you act all manly, even if you're 98 pounds soaking wet, it makes us feel more feminine, more safe.
"I love that my friends and family always comment on how my husband opens the door for me and does all kinds of other chivalrous things—especially when I was pregnant, when he was so protective of me and my belly," says Lola, 29, of Abuja, Nigeria. "At the end of the day, being in his strong arms is definitely a good feeling, no matter how independent I know I am."
5. A Women's ex-boyfriends were not completely terrible in bed.
You know how a woman is always telling you things like, "No one does it like you do"? Um, yeah. Well, she may have been stretching the truth just a teensy bit. But she'll never actually tell you that a past lover was a bedroom dynamo—she'is smarter than that. Just know that whatever toe-curling orgasms the other guy gave her, sex with you really is a million times better—because it's you, and you're the one she really want.
6. Women're scared that they'll turn into their mothers.
Women love their mothers, really. They admire them, They're grateful to them, They think they're the most amazing women on the planet. Women just don't want to be them. That's why one of the worst insults you can hurl at a woman is, "You're acting just like your mother."
But here's one that's even worse: "You're acting just like my mother." It sends a horrible oedipal shiver down her spines—did he marry me because I'm like his mom? Will he start expecting me to cut the crusts off his PB&J? So please, if you value your sex life, never ever compare your wife to your mother. Out loud, anyway.
7. Women want you to be jealous—but just a little bit.
She want you to notice—and care!—when the waiter flirts with her, or when other guys check her out on the street. It makes her feel that she matters to you. But please don't get all Neanderthal and possessive on her. "I'm very loyal, and if my guy can't understand that I would never do anything with anyone else, then that just makes me mad," says Kara from South Africa. So, to recap: Raising your eyebrows when she introduce you to her cute coworker—good. Punching him out—very, very bad.
8. Yes, she fantasize about hot celebrity guys, but that doesn't mean she want you to be them.
Ramsey Nouah is fsexy and all, but can you imagine having to put up with others sharing him with you.
9. She tell her girlfriends more than she admit to you (but less than you fear).
Yes, she tell them about the latest marital spat, complain about her mothers-in-law, and sigh over the hobby that sucks up all your free time. But she doesn't tell them how big your you-know-what is or that you cried in our arms when your dad died. Some things are just too important and intimate to share. "I definitely don't tell my girlfriends details like what my husband said when he proposed, the feeling I have every time I see him look at our daughter, and the little wonderful things he does for me every day," says cheryl. "Those are just for me."
10. She really do notice and appreciate all the chores you do.
Why don't she say so often enough? Because she can't get over all the things you don't do. As for me, for example, I'ms incredibly diligent about keeping a 6-by-10-foot carpeted patch of our apartment vacuumed and cat hair–free, and my wife love that. But it kills she that it never occurs to me to dust the furniture sitting on top of that piece of carpet, or to sweep the hardwood floor adjoining it. Not until she told me four years ago after our children became adults did I know. What a secret!
Blame a woman's lack of positive feedback on that stubborn female belief that there is Only One Right Way to do any given household task—our way. It's probably the real reason why men don't shoulder a greater share of housekeeping duties; women complain about how you did it wrong, so you never want to do it again. (Sounds familiar, right?) Let's make a deal: You promise to dust the lampshade (or wipe down the kitchen counter after you wash the dishes, or take out the garbage and then put a new liner in the can) once in a while, and we promise to sing your praises. Agreed
ayotundejinadu blog: Breaking News: Veteran actor Sam Loco Efe dies
ayotundejinadu blog: Breaking News: Veteran actor Sam Loco Efe dies: "Breaking News: Veteran actor Sam Loco Efe dies Veteran Nollywood actor and comedian, Sam Loco Efe is dead. The actor died today in his ho..."
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Monday 25 July 2011
Four men gang-raped a 15-year-old girL
The Western Regional Office of Domestic Violence and Victims Support Unit (DOVSSU) has mounted a search for four young men who gang-raped a 15-year-old girl in May at Fijai, near Takoradi.
In an interview with the Ghana News Agency in Sekondi on Thursday, The Western Regional DOVSSU Coordinator, Mr Lawrence Gbele, said the crime was committed on May 28 at about 11:30 hours.
The girl was on an errand to purchase medicine to treat rashes on her legs when a private vehicle with registration number WR1587V pulled up behind her. Its four occupants asked her to direct them to the Effia-Nkwanta Hospital.
He said after showing them the way, one of them insisted that she should join them to the hospital but she refused.
Mr. Gbele said all of sudden, one of them grabbed her and covered her nose and mouth with a white handkerchief sprinkled with some powered substances, sending her into sudden unconsciousness.
He said that was all that the girl could remember until the next day when she was left at the same spot around 0500hours.
Mr. Gbele said after the girl was sent to the Effia-Nkwanta hospital for examination, it became evident that, she had been defiled.
The Police have invited the owner of the vehicle used to commit the crime to assist them in their investigation.
In an interview with the Ghana News Agency in Sekondi on Thursday, The Western Regional DOVSSU Coordinator, Mr Lawrence Gbele, said the crime was committed on May 28 at about 11:30 hours.
The girl was on an errand to purchase medicine to treat rashes on her legs when a private vehicle with registration number WR1587V pulled up behind her. Its four occupants asked her to direct them to the Effia-Nkwanta Hospital.
He said after showing them the way, one of them insisted that she should join them to the hospital but she refused.
Mr. Gbele said all of sudden, one of them grabbed her and covered her nose and mouth with a white handkerchief sprinkled with some powered substances, sending her into sudden unconsciousness.
He said that was all that the girl could remember until the next day when she was left at the same spot around 0500hours.
Mr. Gbele said after the girl was sent to the Effia-Nkwanta hospital for examination, it became evident that, she had been defiled.
The Police have invited the owner of the vehicle used to commit the crime to assist them in their investigation.
Topic: 20 Cultists Arrested For Forcing Girls To Have Sex With Each Other (Lesbianism) ( 2
THE Nigerian Army, Friday, paraded twenty cultists who allegedly forced some female students to have sex with themselves.
Parading the suspected cultists at 82 Division of the Nigerian Army, Enugu, Assistant Director, Public Relations of the Division, Lt Col Sagir Musa, said that 19 cultists belonging to six different cult groups were arrested in their hideouts in Agbani by troops of 82 Division Garrison Anti Kidnapping Unit between July 8 and 12, this year.
He stated that a patrol team of 103 Battalion moved to the Enugu State University of Science and Technology (ESUT) following sporadic gunshots at the institution on July 4 and arrested one of the perpetrators of the crime identified as Mr Franklin Anikwe with 5 rounds of 9mm ammunition.
The General Officer Commanding the 82 Division, Major General Sarkin Bello , Musa disclosed, consequently directed that a thorough investigation be carried out in order to fish out the perpetrator.
The Army spokesman disclosed further that “ it was the preliminary investigation conducted by division’s intelligence group that led to the arrest of the 19 other members of different cult groups.
The patrol team, according to him, recovered 4 locally made pistols, 10AA cartridges and video clip where some female students were forced to have illicit sex with themselves during the raid.
Musa said 10 telephones handsets including the one used for recording female students that were brutally forced to have immoral sexual intercourse with themselves were also recovered from the hideouts of the cultists.
“It was such a nasty , terrible, brutal situation where cultists captured female students and forced them to have sexual intercouse with themselves.
“ It is worthy of note that the cultist have been freely raping girls, maltreating their colleagues at will and committing all manners of atrocities on campus and at Agbani general area of Enugu City” he stated.
Musa further stated that the arrested cultists and items recovered from their hideouts would be handed over to the Nigerian Police Force for further action
Parading the suspected cultists at 82 Division of the Nigerian Army, Enugu, Assistant Director, Public Relations of the Division, Lt Col Sagir Musa, said that 19 cultists belonging to six different cult groups were arrested in their hideouts in Agbani by troops of 82 Division Garrison Anti Kidnapping Unit between July 8 and 12, this year.
He stated that a patrol team of 103 Battalion moved to the Enugu State University of Science and Technology (ESUT) following sporadic gunshots at the institution on July 4 and arrested one of the perpetrators of the crime identified as Mr Franklin Anikwe with 5 rounds of 9mm ammunition.
The General Officer Commanding the 82 Division, Major General Sarkin Bello , Musa disclosed, consequently directed that a thorough investigation be carried out in order to fish out the perpetrator.
The Army spokesman disclosed further that “ it was the preliminary investigation conducted by division’s intelligence group that led to the arrest of the 19 other members of different cult groups.
The patrol team, according to him, recovered 4 locally made pistols, 10AA cartridges and video clip where some female students were forced to have illicit sex with themselves during the raid.
Musa said 10 telephones handsets including the one used for recording female students that were brutally forced to have immoral sexual intercourse with themselves were also recovered from the hideouts of the cultists.
“It was such a nasty , terrible, brutal situation where cultists captured female students and forced them to have sexual intercouse with themselves.
“ It is worthy of note that the cultist have been freely raping girls, maltreating their colleagues at will and committing all manners of atrocities on campus and at Agbani general area of Enugu City” he stated.
Musa further stated that the arrested cultists and items recovered from their hideouts would be handed over to the Nigerian Police Force for further action
Friday 22 July 2011
TO ALL MY FRIENDS AND LOVED ONES
both young and old.men and women,find in Hell fire, and it was very terrible please check your life today and determine where you"re going to spend you life eternity. Thank you.
i write this because i don"t you to enter there please come close to God.love you all.
remember that God love you and he need to to stay with him,Hell is not a place you enter and come out, million of people are there right now begging to 1 second to repent why can"t you come to Jesus today and be save.
TO MY DEAR PARENTS
I LOVE MY PARENTS SO MUCH , THEY ARE THE BEST PARENT I HAVE EVER SEE . MAYBTHE ALMIGHTY GOD PROTECT THEM AND SEE THEM TRU IN EVERYWHERE THEY GO AND THEY WONT DIE YOUNG AND THEY WILL ALSO SEE THEIR GREAT GRAND CHIDREN
TO MY DEAR PARENTS
I LOVE MY PARENTS SO MUCH , THEY ARE THE BEST PARENT I HAVE EVER SEE . MAYBTHE ALMIGHTY GOD PROTECT THEM AND SEE THEM TRU IN EVERYWHERE THEY GO AND THEY WONT DIE YOUNG AND THEY WILL ALSO SEE THEIR GREAT GRAND CHIDREN
jim iyke weds uche nwaogu a joke
Jim Iyke weds Uche Nwaogu. could this be a rumor? Jim Iyke weds Uche Nwaogu, Nollywoodgossip is reporting.
Well, before Jim’s Jamaican (always naked) girlfriend suffers a heart attack, let’s quickly add that this only happened in Jim’s new movie titled ‘Bull In The Hacker’. The interesting movie is set to hit the market soon.
But come on, we must agree that they made a cute couple.
Well, before Jim’s Jamaican (always naked) girlfriend suffers a heart attack, let’s quickly add that this only happened in Jim’s new movie titled ‘Bull In The Hacker’. The interesting movie is set to hit the market soon.
But come on, we must agree that they made a cute couple.
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Man Sent To Kirikiri For Playing With Woman's Breasts Free Of Charge
A man, Micah Monday, has been charged to Apapa magistrate’s court Lagos State, Southwest Nigeria for allegedly fondling a pregnant woman’s breasts.
He has now been remanded in Kirikiri Prison Apapa, Lagos because he could not meet the bail conditions.
The 30-year old Monday was alleged to have fondled Mrs Helen Tamukunu’s breasts in his workshop without her consent.
The incident happened at Igbologun area of Snake Island, Lagos.
P.M.NEWS gathered that the bitter woman engaged the services of Monday to work for her and she paid him in advance. But Monday allegedly did not do the work as he promised.
When Helen went to Monday’s shop to know why he did not do the job as he promised.
Instead of explaining to the woman what happened, he began to tease her. He reportedly told her how he loves her. Monday thought that he had convinced her and he started fondling her breasts.
Shocked by Monday’s action, she attempted to remove his hand from her breasts and her bra got torn in the process.
She went to the police station in the area and reported what happened. Monday was arrested and charged to court for assault.
Part of the charge reads: “That you, the defendant, at the same date, time and place did forcefully romance the complainant.”
He pleaded not guilty.
The presiding magistrate, Mr. P. E. Nwaka granted him bail in the sum of N5,000 with one surety in like sum.
He was, however, remanded in prison custody at Kirikiri because he could not meet the bail conditions.
He has now been remanded in Kirikiri Prison Apapa, Lagos because he could not meet the bail conditions.
The 30-year old Monday was alleged to have fondled Mrs Helen Tamukunu’s breasts in his workshop without her consent.
The incident happened at Igbologun area of Snake Island, Lagos.
P.M.NEWS gathered that the bitter woman engaged the services of Monday to work for her and she paid him in advance. But Monday allegedly did not do the work as he promised.
When Helen went to Monday’s shop to know why he did not do the job as he promised.
Instead of explaining to the woman what happened, he began to tease her. He reportedly told her how he loves her. Monday thought that he had convinced her and he started fondling her breasts.
Shocked by Monday’s action, she attempted to remove his hand from her breasts and her bra got torn in the process.
She went to the police station in the area and reported what happened. Monday was arrested and charged to court for assault.
Part of the charge reads: “That you, the defendant, at the same date, time and place did forcefully romance the complainant.”
He pleaded not guilty.
The presiding magistrate, Mr. P. E. Nwaka granted him bail in the sum of N5,000 with one surety in like sum.
He was, however, remanded in prison custody at Kirikiri because he could not meet the bail conditions.
confession of a prostitute
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A Lagos prostitute has landed herself in deep trouble. She is currently in police custody after allegedly stabbing a man to death after arguments over – wait for it – oral sex.
The young lady isn’t denying that she committed the crime; she’s saying, however, that she killed the man in self defence.
The 21-year-old lady, Kofoworola, said when she boarded a Honda car at Borno Crescent, Apapa, Lagos, at about 3.30 am that fateful night, she was very grateful to the driver. The driver, she said, reportedly assured her he would not collect any money since he wasn’t driving a commercial vehicle.
Kofoworola, (other names are being withheld by us) said she never knew that danger was lurking around the corner until the driver, identified as Patrick, refused to stop at her destination - Monalido Night Club, Apapa. Kofoworola said when she protested, the driver brought out a knife and threatened to kill her if she failed to do his bidding. Ironically, it was Kofoworola that ended up killing the man with that same knife. How did it happen?
“He threatened to kill me with the knife if I refused to perform oral sex on him,” she said. “He said I should use my mouth to stimulate his manhood. I told him I could not do it. I had never done such a thing before. I begged him and even told him that such act irritates me and would make me vomit. All my pleading fell on deaf ears. I later told him to allow me ease myself. I told him I was not going to run because my bag was on the back seat. He stopped the vehicle, but as I wanted to come down, he sped off again.
He held my neck with one hand as he drove and was pressing my throat with it while he controlled the steering with the other hand. He then pulled over at a dark spot along Hyndra Road, Apapa. He pulled down his trousers and commanded me to do what he wanted me to do. I still refused. He stabbed me in my foot to show how serious he was. I screamed and begged him to leave me alone.
He pressed my face to his lap and ordered me to do what he wanted me to do. I did not obey him. As he was pressing my neck, the knife fell off from his hands. I quickly grabbed it. When he saw that I had collected the knife, he attempted to collect it from me by force. He bit me in the hand. So I first stabbed him on the thigh and later stabbed him in the chest several times.
“I didn’t mean to kill him. I was only trying to defend myself since he had vowed to kill me. I made a mistake. Maybe instead of killing him I should have allowed him to kill me. That would have been better. I would not have been in this problem now.”
She also explained how she became a prostitute. Her words: “I am a Lagosian. I come from Lagos Island. I live at Casco Street, Old Ojo Road, Mazamaza with my mother. I am also a mother, as I have a three-year-old daughter. My father never cared about me and that was why I am into prostitution. My father is not interested whether we survive or not. My mother is just a petty trader. There is little she can do financially. I needed to do something so that I could be able to take care of my child and myself. Now that I am in trouble, who will take care of my baby? I have to do something to take care of my baby. I love my baby. I love her so much.
“What am I going to do now? Who will help me out of this problem? They said they will charge the case to court. I have not entered any court since I was born. Now I am going there because of murder. God, I should have allowed him to kill me. If I had died, at least I will rest from all these worldly problems. I don’t have a helper. See what poverty has dragged me into. If not for poverty, I should be sleeping in my house instead of going to the club. But I do it on part time basis. I am not a full time prostitute.”
The lady said the man who impregnated her abandoned her and the baby, saying she even dragged him to the police station over the matter.
“I tried to make Collins understand that he is the owner of the baby but he denied it. The police tried to settle the matter. But you know you can take a horse to the stream, you cannot force it to drink water. My family were also disappointed in him. Up till now he never cares about his baby. He is not interested in her. For three years now, I have been the one rearing the baby alone. All these problems made me look for money by all means. I had to drop my pride and take my destiny in my hands.”
According to her, she is regretting ever venturing into prostitution. She urges women to avoid it as much as possible. “Prostitution is not a job,” she said. “It is immoral. It can put you in trouble at any time. Please learn from my own experience. I became pregnant during my final year in secondary school. After I delivered, I later went back to write my WAEC examinations. Unfortunately, I failed English language.”
An investigation by this reporter in many night clubs in Apapa revealed that the dead man might have violated several prostitutes in the area before he was finally killed.
At Wazobia Night Club, a lady called Ngozi spoke of her experience in the hands of the dead man. Her words: “One day at about 2 am., I was leaving the residence of one of my ‘customers’. He is a white man. He lives at Calcutta Crescent, Apapa. I was waiting for either a commercial motorcycle or a taxi that would convey me to a hotel on Azare Street, Apapa, where another customer was waiting for me. I saw this car and it stopped in front of me. Only the driver was inside. He beckoned on me to come inside and I did.
He asked where I was going and I told him. He said he was going towards that direction and that he would drop me at no cost. But instead to move towards the direction I was going, the man brought out a knife and threatened to stab me to death if I failed to cooperate. He pulled over at a dark spot along Hyndra Road, Apapa. He pulled his trouser down and ordered me to perform oral sex on him. I was afraid. Tears rolled down my eyes as I begged him that I could not do it. I begged him to have normal sex with me instead.
But he refused and threatened to kill me. He claimed to be an ex-soldier. Since I didn’t want to die, I had to do what he wanted. Later he held my bag and said he would do me a favour. He told me to go down, open his boot and bring his bag. Immediately I got down, the man sped off. My two handsets were inside the bag.”
The police said the lady would soon be charged to court.
boko haram writes to president jonathan
This is an open letter written by the sect Boko Haram to President Jonathan
June 28, 2011
The President
Federal Republic of Nigeria
H.E., Dr. Goodluck Jonathan, GCFR
Aso Villa,
Abuja
BOKO HARAM: THE REAL ISSUES OPEN LETTER TO MR. PRESIDENT
Mr President,
We, the undersigned, citizens of Nigeria, whose domicile of origin is Borno, write to you, as one with overall responsibility for national security to look into the cause of violence that has tragically engulfed Borno State and the sequence of events in the last three years, with a view to finding A JUST AND LASTING SOLUTION, AND NOT A MILITARY SOLUTION WHICH CAN ONLY BE TEMPORARY.
BEFORE THE VIOLENCE
The late Mohammed Yusuf, like any other cleric of any religious sect, had a mosque and a following.
He held weekly public sermons.
He was exercising his constitutionally guaranteed right of assembly and worship.
At no time was there a breach of the peace.
His followers were young, able bodied, unemployed with no prospect of hope in the horizon.
They had Western Education!, and therefore literate and aware of the prevailing social conditions. (even though they declared a jihad against western education)
Increasingly, their sermons were taking the form of liberation theology, commenting on the ills, injustice and inequities, prevalent in their immediate environment.
As a result, there was no love lost between them and the State Government.
THE SSS REPORT
Such sermons, publicly made, caught the attention of the State Government.
The State Security Service became interested in their activities.
Investigations were carried out and a comprehensive report was written and made available to the Federal Authorities.
Mohammed Yusuf himself was in regular contact with security services both in Maiduguri and Abuja.
He was even charged to court.
THE FLASH POINT
The first trigger for violence was when Mohammed Yusuf’s followers in a funeral procession, on their motorbikes were fired on by members of Operation Flush – a combined force of the Army and the Police – ostensibly for not wearing crash helmets.
About 19 of them were fatally wounded.
This force was said to be under the Operational control of the then State Governor.
The incident led to the group taking the law into their hands, attacked and killed security personnel and burnt police stations. (and so they took the laws into their hands and began to kill innocent Nigerians)
Two wrongs can’t make a right.
THE VIOLENCE
The Federal Government, on the instruction of the late President Umaru Yar’adua, responded with disproportionate, overwhelming and indiscriminate use of force against the entire community.
The leader of the group, Mohammed Yusuf and a former Commissioner of Religious Affairs in the State, Buji Fois were arrested and were summarily, publicly and extra-judicially executed by the police.
Young boys and even invalids on crutches were routinely rounded up, not at the scene of any violence and executed in the same manner.
The footage of these executions were relayed world-wide on Al-Jazeera Television network and posted on YouTube.
THE SINS OF THE SON -IN-LAW
The late Baba Fugu, was a gentleman in his seventies.
He was a respected figure in the local community.
He was never declared wanted nor arrested by the police.
He was Mohammed Yusuf’s father-in-law.
He went to the Police Station voluntarily to make enquiries.
He was executed at the Police Station.
The sins of the son-in-law were visited on the father-in-law.
Not even Osama bin-Laden’s relatives were ever treated like this. When the U.S. Navy seals attacked Osama bin Ladens premises, they went for their target. His wives and children were spared.
NSA/CDS/IGP’s REPORT
The gravity of the situation led the Federal Government to set a high powered team comprising of the then National Security Adviser, Chief of Defence Staff and Inspector General of Police to investigate and report.
The team went to Maiduguri and wrote a report.
Nothing has been heard of that report.
OUR PRAYERS
In order to get to the root of the matter and arrive at a JUST SOLUTION, to consider the following.
a) Why was no proactive action taken and measures put in place as a result of the comprehensive report by the SSS?
b) What Law provides for the shooting of citizens by security forces for not wearing crash helmets?
c) What Law provides for the operational control of Operation flush, a combined team of the Army and the Police by the Borno State Governor?
d) Whether the victims were members of Boko Haram or not. Under what Law did the Police extra-judicially execute Mohammed Yusuf, Buji Foi and the young children and cripples? These are issues of violation of Fundamental Human Rights and the rule and due process of law.
e) Under what Law was Baba Fugu, (father-in-law to Mohammed Yusuf killed)?
f) What is the outcome of the ‘High powered post violence report’?
g) The Governor as the Chief Security Officer of the State and the Police Commissioner in whom operational powers were vested, should be invited to answer under what law they order these executions.
LET THE RULE OF LAW PREVAIL
Borno State is not Camp Delta and members of Boko Haram are not enemy combatants, where human rights and the rule of law can be dispensed with.THE NEED FOR A STATESMAN-LIKE INTERVENTION
What was once a local affair is now taking a region wide dimension and threatening national security. (they have undermined national security abi? therefore will be treated likewise. The bomb-makers are KNOWN!)
All manner of crime is now conveniently subsumed under the spectre of Boko Haram.
Meanwhile, the social and commercial activities in Borno are being grounded.
Continuation of this situation will ultimately lead to the collapse of the local economy leading to more unemployment, despair and further conflict.
Ethnic chauvinists, religious bigots and sundry criminals would have a field day.
A frightening and forbidding prospect.
More indiscriminate military and police intervention will only lead to more innocent loss of life leading to more recruitment of young people into a militant and daring force, determined for revenge.
More indiscriminate military and police intervention will lead to an angry population which will sympathize with, aid and assist the young as they take up arms against authority.
The root causes are two.
1) Injustice which must be corrected.
Secondly – an obvious lack of economic development in a zone (Northeast) which in the last 5 years has received less than 1% of Federal Government spending.
It is the most deprived part of Nigeria.
The solution to the problem is JOBS AND JUSTICE.
The President of Nigeria is President of all the zones of this country.
He should and must show that he is the Father of all the zones.
His government will do best if it provides JUSTICE AND JOBS.
With the greatest respect,
Mamman Kashim,
Kalli Gazali
Dr. Usman Ladan
Abba Kyari
Cc:
General Owoeye Andrew Azazi,
June 28, 2011
The President
Federal Republic of Nigeria
H.E., Dr. Goodluck Jonathan, GCFR
Aso Villa,
Abuja
BOKO HARAM: THE REAL ISSUES OPEN LETTER TO MR. PRESIDENT
Mr President,
We, the undersigned, citizens of Nigeria, whose domicile of origin is Borno, write to you, as one with overall responsibility for national security to look into the cause of violence that has tragically engulfed Borno State and the sequence of events in the last three years, with a view to finding A JUST AND LASTING SOLUTION, AND NOT A MILITARY SOLUTION WHICH CAN ONLY BE TEMPORARY.
BEFORE THE VIOLENCE
The late Mohammed Yusuf, like any other cleric of any religious sect, had a mosque and a following.
He held weekly public sermons.
He was exercising his constitutionally guaranteed right of assembly and worship.
At no time was there a breach of the peace.
His followers were young, able bodied, unemployed with no prospect of hope in the horizon.
They had Western Education!, and therefore literate and aware of the prevailing social conditions. (even though they declared a jihad against western education)
Increasingly, their sermons were taking the form of liberation theology, commenting on the ills, injustice and inequities, prevalent in their immediate environment.
As a result, there was no love lost between them and the State Government.
THE SSS REPORT
Such sermons, publicly made, caught the attention of the State Government.
The State Security Service became interested in their activities.
Investigations were carried out and a comprehensive report was written and made available to the Federal Authorities.
Mohammed Yusuf himself was in regular contact with security services both in Maiduguri and Abuja.
He was even charged to court.
THE FLASH POINT
The first trigger for violence was when Mohammed Yusuf’s followers in a funeral procession, on their motorbikes were fired on by members of Operation Flush – a combined force of the Army and the Police – ostensibly for not wearing crash helmets.
About 19 of them were fatally wounded.
This force was said to be under the Operational control of the then State Governor.
The incident led to the group taking the law into their hands, attacked and killed security personnel and burnt police stations. (and so they took the laws into their hands and began to kill innocent Nigerians)
Two wrongs can’t make a right.
THE VIOLENCE
The Federal Government, on the instruction of the late President Umaru Yar’adua, responded with disproportionate, overwhelming and indiscriminate use of force against the entire community.
The leader of the group, Mohammed Yusuf and a former Commissioner of Religious Affairs in the State, Buji Fois were arrested and were summarily, publicly and extra-judicially executed by the police.
Young boys and even invalids on crutches were routinely rounded up, not at the scene of any violence and executed in the same manner.
The footage of these executions were relayed world-wide on Al-Jazeera Television network and posted on YouTube.
THE SINS OF THE SON -IN-LAW
The late Baba Fugu, was a gentleman in his seventies.
He was a respected figure in the local community.
He was never declared wanted nor arrested by the police.
He was Mohammed Yusuf’s father-in-law.
He went to the Police Station voluntarily to make enquiries.
He was executed at the Police Station.
The sins of the son-in-law were visited on the father-in-law.
Not even Osama bin-Laden’s relatives were ever treated like this. When the U.S. Navy seals attacked Osama bin Ladens premises, they went for their target. His wives and children were spared.
NSA/CDS/IGP’s REPORT
The gravity of the situation led the Federal Government to set a high powered team comprising of the then National Security Adviser, Chief of Defence Staff and Inspector General of Police to investigate and report.
The team went to Maiduguri and wrote a report.
Nothing has been heard of that report.
OUR PRAYERS
In order to get to the root of the matter and arrive at a JUST SOLUTION, to consider the following.
a) Why was no proactive action taken and measures put in place as a result of the comprehensive report by the SSS?
b) What Law provides for the shooting of citizens by security forces for not wearing crash helmets?
c) What Law provides for the operational control of Operation flush, a combined team of the Army and the Police by the Borno State Governor?
d) Whether the victims were members of Boko Haram or not. Under what Law did the Police extra-judicially execute Mohammed Yusuf, Buji Foi and the young children and cripples? These are issues of violation of Fundamental Human Rights and the rule and due process of law.
e) Under what Law was Baba Fugu, (father-in-law to Mohammed Yusuf killed)?
f) What is the outcome of the ‘High powered post violence report’?
g) The Governor as the Chief Security Officer of the State and the Police Commissioner in whom operational powers were vested, should be invited to answer under what law they order these executions.
LET THE RULE OF LAW PREVAIL
Borno State is not Camp Delta and members of Boko Haram are not enemy combatants, where human rights and the rule of law can be dispensed with.THE NEED FOR A STATESMAN-LIKE INTERVENTION
What was once a local affair is now taking a region wide dimension and threatening national security. (they have undermined national security abi? therefore will be treated likewise. The bomb-makers are KNOWN!)
All manner of crime is now conveniently subsumed under the spectre of Boko Haram.
Meanwhile, the social and commercial activities in Borno are being grounded.
Continuation of this situation will ultimately lead to the collapse of the local economy leading to more unemployment, despair and further conflict.
Ethnic chauvinists, religious bigots and sundry criminals would have a field day.
A frightening and forbidding prospect.
More indiscriminate military and police intervention will only lead to more innocent loss of life leading to more recruitment of young people into a militant and daring force, determined for revenge.
More indiscriminate military and police intervention will lead to an angry population which will sympathize with, aid and assist the young as they take up arms against authority.
The root causes are two.
1) Injustice which must be corrected.
Secondly – an obvious lack of economic development in a zone (Northeast) which in the last 5 years has received less than 1% of Federal Government spending.
It is the most deprived part of Nigeria.
The solution to the problem is JOBS AND JUSTICE.
The President of Nigeria is President of all the zones of this country.
He should and must show that he is the Father of all the zones.
His government will do best if it provides JUSTICE AND JOBS.
With the greatest respect,
Mamman Kashim,
Kalli Gazali
Dr. Usman Ladan
Abba Kyari
Cc:
General Owoeye Andrew Azazi,
Thursday 21 July 2011
ayotundeblog: road issues
ayotundeblog: road issues: "the roads are so bad that it will take passengers to go where they are suppose to go to"
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